Stan, dont feel bad as your Fraternity is not the only one!
Had the same thing happen between Mo. Houses and at My Chapter at PSU (Kansas)
I happened to see the after math at the William-Jewell Chapter and my own.
To say that I was appalled is to put it mildly. The Mo. Chapter is gone. The one who trashed our House is still on a very prominent campus to this day!
I wrote that Chapter a letter stating if it ever happened again, I would petition Hdq. To suspend them or put them on a social probation! They will never be welcome back to my Chapter! What a sad state of affairs!
We are all looking to promote Greek Unity and then something like this happens!