I totally agree with all of the above. Also - you know when you put the info in your profile and it says "location"? If you say "Texas" or "Northeast" that's fine, but if you say "Greencastle Indiana" everyone will be able to figure out you go to DePauw even if you never mention it. Also don't use your email if it is something like
susiesmith@nameofcollege.edu.
If writing it out with the names and your good and bad thoughts makes you feel better and helps you clear your head, write it in a journal. Not an LJ. Not a blog. An old-fashioned paper journal like your granny used to have when she was drooling over how dreamy Elvis was.
Oh and one more piece of advice. Don't wear electric blue spandex pants.