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Old 09-22-2012, 02:46 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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Honestly, I don't necessarily think it's a bad idea. It IS a bad idea if you really WANT to be in a sorority. However, if you would rather not be in a sorority than not be an ABC, and you understand that that's part of the risk you're taking, then go for it.

Your daughter did get very lucky though. Many PNMs who take that risk don't get that second chance.

The "yes to a chance" part really stands out to me, though. You may not love love love the chapter that's offering you a bid, but it really is worth a shot, especially if you're dealing with a situation where your first recruitment is likely your only chance.
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