Yes, I agree folks often mis-label greeks as being...whatever... And it makes you sick, not to mention tired of trying to explain your experiences and benefits within your sorority or fraternity.
Obviously all of us love our F/S's 'til the day we die. Some of us may be even beyond! So if we love our organizations so much, what is there to explain? Do we have to "prove" our legitimacy of our existence? Especially when some organizations may have surpassed 150 years!!!
So, if friend cannot see all the wonderful things about your organization... You know what I am going to say...